Parenting a child with big emotions doesn’t have to feel this hard.

Private parent coaching for families with deeply feeling, strong-willed, sensitive, or sometimes explosive children — so you can stop walking on eggshells and start feeling calm, confident, and connected again.

Certified Peaceful Parenting Coach • Virtual Sessions • Personalized Support

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Does this sound familiar?

  • Your child has intense reactions to seemingly small things, and it’s starting to impact the whole family dynamic.
  • You feel like you’ve tried all the parenting strategies, but nothing seems to work for your child.
  • You’re tired of waiting and hoping your child will “grow out of it.”
  • You sometimes feel like you’re walking on eggshells in your own home.
  • You love your child deeply, but you feel drained, resentful, guilty, or unsure what to do next.
  • You want to parent peacefully, but in the heat of the moment, your own nervous system takes over.
  • You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, and watched the trainings — but you still need help applying it to your exact child and your exact family.

You’re not alone. And your child isn’t broken. You just need a clearer map, compassionate support, and practical tools that actually fit your real life.

Meet Dajana

I understand because I’ve been there too.

Hi, I’m Dajana Yoakley — pronounced Diana — founder of Delight in Parenting and a certified Peaceful Parenting Coach.

My peaceful parenting journey began when I was a first-time mom of a strong-willed toddler. I felt completely ineffective. I wanted my child to listen. I wanted to be calm. I wanted to parent differently than the threats, punishments, yelling, and control I had seen around me — but I didn’t know how.

I would try to control my child’s behavior, my child would resist, I would get triggered, and then I’d raise my voice. Afterward, I felt guilty, ashamed, and confused. I knew my child wasn’t bad. I knew I wasn’t bad. But I felt stuck in a cycle I couldn’t seem to escape.

Peaceful parenting helped me see that neither of us was broken. My child’s big emotions weren’t an emergency, and my reactions made sense given my own nervous system, history, and stress. Slowly, through self-compassion, connection, and practical tools, I began rewiring my own responses and creating more peace in our home.

Now I help parents do the same — not by becoming perfect, but by learning how to show up with more calm, clarity, confidence, and love in the moments that used to completely overwhelm them.

Parenting is heroic work. You shouldn’t have to do it alone.

Influences & Trainings

Rooted in personal experience, refined by research, and grounded in peaceful parenting, neuroscience, and self-compassion.

Dr. Laura Markham

Certified Peaceful Parenting Coach trained through Dr. Laura Markham’s Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids approach.

Dr. Lawrence Cohen

Completed Playful Parenting for Parent Educators, integrating play, connection, and emotional safety into parenting support.

Leadership + Science Background

Master’s degree in Leadership, Bachelor’s in Biology from the University of Florida, and over a decade of senior leadership experience.

Additional Influences

Daniel Siegel, Tina Payne Bryson, Ross Greene, Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish, Lisa Damour, Richard Schwartz, self-compassion research, and many others.

A Compassionate, Practical Approach

In private coaching, we look beneath the behavior. We explore your child’s needs, your nervous system, the family patterns that keep repeating, and the specific words and actions that help your child feel safe enough to cooperate.

1. Regulate Yourself

Learn how to stay grounded when your child’s big emotions trigger your own.

2. Connect Before Redirecting

Build the emotional safety your child needs before they can listen, learn, and cooperate.

3. Coach Instead of Control

Set limits with empathy while helping your child build emotional intelligence and problem-solving skills.

What Parents Say

“Within the first week of using Dajana’s methods, I saw a tiny shift... Three months later, my son is completely different. He still feels things intensely, but now he asks for help instead of destroying things.”

— Jennifer S.
“She taught me specific things to do with my body and my voice that actually work even when I’m feeling triggered... Now when my son gets upset, I have tools that help me stay grounded.”

— Michelle D.

Choose Your Path

15-Minute Discovery Call

Free

A short call to see if private coaching is the right fit.

  • Share what’s happening in your home
  • Ask questions about coaching
  • Get a feel for my approach
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Private Coaching Sessions

Support begins with 6 sessions

Personalized coaching for your exact child, your exact triggers, and your exact family dynamics.

  • Six 50-minute Zoom sessions
  • Personalized strategies for your child
  • Support for big emotions, sibling conflict, limits, yelling, and power struggles
  • Practical scripts for what to do and what to say
  • Compassionate support without shame or judgment
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Parent Breakthrough Session

One private intensive

Best for parents who want focused support on one urgent issue.

  • Bring your hardest parenting challenge
  • We identify the pattern underneath the behavior
  • You leave with a clear next-step plan
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Questions & Answers

Why should I work with a parent coach when it’s my child who needs help?

Because your child’s behavior happens inside a relationship. When you learn how to respond differently, set limits differently, and regulate your own nervous system, your child experiences you differently — and the whole family pattern can begin to shift.

What if my child has ADHD, anxiety, autism, PDA traits, or is highly sensitive?

Many of the families I support have children with big nervous systems, intense emotions, sensitivity, anxiety, neurodivergence, or strong autonomy needs. Coaching is not a replacement for therapy or medical care, but it can help you parent your unique child with more clarity and compassion.

What if I’ve already tried everything?

That usually means you don’t need more random strategies — you need a framework that helps you understand what’s driving the behavior and what to do in the moment.

What if I yell or lose it sometimes?

You are not alone. We work with your nervous system too, so you can repair, reset, and build new patterns without shame.

Do both parents need to attend?

No. One regulated, connected parent can make a meaningful difference. If both parents want to attend, that can be helpful, but it is not required.

Is coaching virtual?

Yes. Sessions are held virtually by Zoom.

Do you accept insurance?

No. Parent coaching is not therapy and is not billed through insurance.

Transform your home so you can feel...

Confident in how you respond to your child. Hopeful about your relationship. Encouraged by meaningful progress in your home.

You don’t have to figure this out alone. Let’s start turning the pattern around together.

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